What is friendship?This can be a difficult question , the most difficult problem of mathematics. However, in some modest lines , and I'll try to answer this rhetorical question of how I see friendship.
Much
ink has been spilled on the true meaning of friendship , but all the
definitions that do not have the characteristics of true friendship
final standard . Even when you search for a word in the dictionary , you know that simply means the status of being friends. So
, I think it is very important to give it a try and go beyond the
definition of sterile and study some of the characteristics of the word
friendship .
It
also says the English proverb says : " a friend in need is a friend
indeed , " friendship can be defined as two or more people who love and
accept all the default values , a link man between them . And makes them help each other . Thus,
a true friend is someone who is always there to lend a helping hand
whenever you have problems , but today, people have become more
materialistic and care benefit everyone , even his best friends , and
this makes it difficult for anyone to trust him / her friends . Here I have to make a comparison between what happened between friends in the past and really goes on between them now . A
friend used to listen very well in the way that I did not see any
difference between them and their friends believers is that they laughed
together and cry together , and when you are absent and that he saw
another body without a soul . Things
have changed completely the opposite at the present time , it is common
to wait for a request from a friend , whenever he / she calls you. Never ask you or if you are happy or sad . It
becomes your best friend when you need something , and even when a
friend secretly , you just keep and disclose as soon as possible .
So the question arises: Are there still real friends ?
Well , the answer to this question is difficult and we are not too pessimistic and say that there are still real friends . However , we must also keep his / her friends on tests to see if they are friends or incorrect . To do this, simply follow these steps:
1) . Always pay attention to body language and facial from a friend to talk to him / her expressions . Can show if they are happy to be with you or not.
2) . Count the number of times he / she calls you and achieve his / her reaction when he does not appear for a few days .
3) . Tell your friend that you need him / her to help solve a serious problem and see how willing he / she will .
4) . Friend test his / her secretly tell a fake and see how he / she is keeping secrets .
5 ) . The invention of a little misunderstanding between you two and see how he / she would respond .
Anyway, these are just a few suggestions to test their friendship . Of course, there are hundreds of them , and just use your imagination and social intelligence .
However
, I would like to say that we could never live without friends ,
because time has become like a family member or in some cases more than
that . However , you should be very selective in choosing friends.
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