Finding Friends - The Where Is As Important As The How

Most of the advice focuses on how to make friends and very little of it focuses on the place where you can . But even if you have all the knowledge about how to make friends and learn how to use this knowledge to its full potential still to go anywhere unless you know where you can find potential friends .


Depending on where you live and how long you have lived there and what their interests are the areas that are likely to be more successful in finding potential friends will be different , but there are some general tips , they can guide you in the right direction .

A good place to start is to write their own interests , it is not necessary to be classified at this time because we will later . Just start writing everything that you find interesting or what you enjoy doing .

Then begin deleting those that do not want to do on the basis of semi- regular basis , an example of what could be that you love to read, but you want to do in your own time , rather than focusing on bilateral - a week , and preferably choose yourself what to read instead from reading the book itself as a group of other people . You can also solve the hobbies and interests that you would prefer to do it alone .

Now you should have a relatively short list of things you want to do with many other people on a regular basis to some extent, and this is a good start to find out exactly where you can find potential friends .The reason is simple . We tend to feel attracted to people who share our interests and opinions and as such , if you find a group that shares at least one of yours , and you will be well on your way .

However , in the next step . Start looking in your area for groups and regions that grow certain interest . Examples include reading clubs , sports teams , theater groups and similar groups , entertainment centers , shopping malls , bars and halls of the theater .

There are several ways to get this information . First, you can ask about the neighborhood or area , to see if some of your neighbors know where you can go to find people who believe (perhaps a neighbor in the same things you are ?) .

Second, use the Internet to find information about your area and what is happening there . A good way to do this is the forums, but the search in the search engines Google navigation as soon as it can work well .

Third , keep an eye on signs around your community , they can provide valuable information on upcoming activities and where they are. These events are usually a good place to find new friends and potential if the event is something that you care about , then it is highly recommended to attend .

Johansson, Ken is the owner and author of the book How to Win Friends 101 , a site dedicated to help anyone to achieve its objectives for friendship and social life !