5 Ways To Become a Low Maintenance Friend

Have you thought about what kind of friend are you? Do not you draw around you with constant chatter, or selfish pride? Did you cause your friends to work tirelessly to bring you to reveal the "real" you?

Or do you have a friend who is a joy to have? The person who gives and loves unconditionally. The trust is trustworthy, and he expected those people to spend some time with? 

It really is their participation in the friendships you practice, consider some of the ways that you can try to commit to becoming a low maintenance friend to those around you to evaluate the winner. 

Here are 5 ways you can become the kind of friend everyone wants to be: 

1). Do not be offended easily 
 
If you have a thick skin, and give others the benefit of the doubt in any situation, and will provide all of yourself and your friends a lot of complexity and headaches. 

We always better. 

When there was a situation in which it can be read in different ways, choosing to believe that any damage has been directed to you personally. Accept that you may not know all the circumstances surrounding the situation and that there must be a logical explanation behind the behavior is likely to be hazardous or words that offended. Avoid taking, but to communicate verbally, in an attempt to understand the work with an open mind. 

2). Take the lead. Be the first.
 
- Be the first to ask without waiting for an invitation.
- Be the first to apologize instead of the expected excuses.
- Be the first to help instead of waiting for his friend to get you.
- Be the first without expecting anything in return. 

Focus on what you can do for the first time in friendship to ease the pressure on the other end, and it is likely that the clouds take the lead author and mutually in no time. 

3). Listening and speaking 
 
Enjoy a balanced position to talk / listen. Enjoy art practice in listening witty true when your friend has something to share. Even if you are a mother tongue, and improve your listening skills will go a long way in building relationships deeper and more pronounced. 

In the same context, and to provide what is in your heart to speak freely is critical publicly. If you tend prefer to listen rather than speak, and work on the friendship holds your contact to make more of an effort to add value to your subject, or simply sharing your day. This exercise becomes easier and more natural once the opportunities and art practice. 

4). Treat and spoil your friend
 
Showing generous heart and is treated with a trophy girlfriend. Some forms are: 

- Send him an unexpected card in the mail just to say that you are grateful for your friendship.
- Choose a beautiful flower and give it a smile.
- Send a link to a free ebook that I would enjoy reading or YouTube clip that can be seen on the Internet, to show that you think about it. 

There are creative ways countless to show your loved ones how much you appreciate your friendship, and put a smile on his face in the process.


5). It's true! 
 
This is one of the most important aspects and it is important to be friends with little maintenance! 

Do not drain the many activities and discouraging to try to detect how a person really behind the "big on" interface. 

Reveal the true circumstances of his life to trusted friends. Weakness, honesty, sincerity and openness go a long way to save the guessing his friend, and to give the privilege and opportunity to talk about his life with his own life and wise advice. 

Become a low maintenance friend can certainly be achieved. I choose to be thick-skinned, take the initiative in the relationship, to be available emotionally to listen and participate, taking into account the small ways to ruin your life, and being "real" and the opening, it is obliged friend for life, which is a joy to be with and invest in them.