How many friends do you have? One , ten, hundreds ? Today , with social media , people can have thousands of friends , but what does this really mean ?
When
referring to a relationship between two people is , the dictionary
describes as a friend " someone you love and love to be . " This means
that it must be in close contact with a person to be your friend . However,
today the company has expanded the term " friend " to include people
who are not necessarily in close contact with and do not even know very
well at all.
The presence of friends is essential for our health and well-being. It helps to form good relationships , and building self-confidence and make good decisions . However, if we're not good friends , it can destroy the self-confidence and cause a lot of problems in our lives .
Thinking that you have friends . It does not make you feel good or bad? Do you stand or demolition ? They
have many friends may seem large , but it is better to have a good
friend that is to have 100 friends who make you feel bad and
self-destruction .
We must all inner and outer circle of friends. And should include some members of the inner circle of friends and that the trust 's immediate family members . These are the people you can count on , no matter what happens in life. And should include the external circuit other people you know. These are the ones that we see from time to time and do not have a close relationship with them.
How it should be in their circle of internal and external not decide ? Here are some questions you should ask all your knowledge about :
Do you trust each other completely?
Do you spend time together ?
Your friend makes you feel good about yourself ?
Do you share the secrets of any person is not repeated ?
Disagree, but still talk about things?
Do you encourage others ?
Do you have fun together?
Stay up to each other when someone tries to hurt one of them?
You're still there for each other, even when you're sick or you feel lonely?
Do you accept the other differences ?
If you can answer all the questions with "yes" , then you probably have a good friend who should be in his entourage . If you answer all the questions or part with "No", then maybe it's not a very good friend , and should be on the outer circle . Perform this test with all your friends and think about what should be inside the circle
All
what people want and like us, we all need friends , but we really
choose the approach that will allow our hearts and try to stay away from
people who are negative , unfavorable , or indifferent . This does not mean that we should ignore completely negative , because they are also in need of love and support from others . What
we need to do is to build self-esteem , and even become a powerful and
positive example , and then we can try to influence people in a positive
way .
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